In one of my previous posts I talked about how painful the process of coming out of the closet can be (Out of the Closet and into the open).
In the case of mental people it means telling the concerned parties that you are mad.
This situation is complicated for a number of reasons. The most obvious one being the stigma. But then there are also such things as trying to be more open with your friends, or wishing to share an important part of your life with someone who might become a potential partner.
So, how and when should we tell the others about the mental condition?
In our imperfect world , where despite the façade of tolerance everyone seems to be afraid of something (difference, madness, weirdness), the answer is never. Not if you want to land a good job, get a promotion or avoid concerned looks on the faces of people to whom you told it. Being mad in our world means that you failed somewhere the expectations of a society based on perfection. We are supposed to be normal, predictable and passive. Not questioning why we have the increased surveillance everywhere, why we spend so much time in the shops and why everyone is obsessed with physical perfection, such as body weight, the amount of wrinkles or buying the latest pink coat (or is it blue coat this year)? Being a machine which follows the commands of the market is the current definition of normality.
An army of sheep who is supposed to be totally complacent, in other words.
And now, imagine the disturbance that a truly mad person causes this status-quo. All mental people, as I noticed, share a number of thoughts, which, in my opinion, should have become a subject of a serious scientific study long time ago.
For instance, one of the common suspicions shared by a large number of mad people is that we are all watched. Doctors call it a delusion, but I came to the conclusion that if anyone is deluded in this instance, it is the doctors themselves.
The world is slowly moving into installing the chips into our body so that we can be traced anywhere and everywhere. This is another common fear among the mental patients – that we have devices installed into our bodies.
Not really, they did start installing them in the US under the last medical programme, called Obamacare.
In case it doesn’t scare you, you should read the Book of Revelation in the Bible. It does cover these events and what it means to accept a mark in or on your body.
Now, does it sound like paranoia?
Yes, of course, as defined by the society which doesn’t want to see the truth.
But this is my point exactly. What if mental people are those who do see the truth and are being silenced for this reason?
And this is why we, ‘the mad’, should start talking despite the stigma. Because once a certain amount of people starts telling the same thing, other people might start listening.